What’s the difference and why does it matter? Being female is both a sex and a gender. The two words are often used interchangeably, but they actually mean different things.

Sex refers specifically to the biological differences between men and women…the physical characteristics of our bodies.

On the other hand, gender refers to the social construction of what it means to be a woman or a girl.  In other words, its what society says about what it means to be a woman.

Sometimes its obvious which category things fit into – breasts are obviously related to our sex, whereas the idea that “women should be in the kitchen” is obviously a gendered social construction. But some are less clear, and the debate rages. Weakness is a great example. Is weakness a socially constructed idea of women, or is it an actual physical reality of our sex?

To sum up, here’s a great (but maybe overly simplistic) quote: “Sex is between your legs; gender is between your ears.”

If you want to read more about the distinction, and the debate, there are some links here and here.

(photo credit: Robert Scoble)